Chillaxing
Pronunciation: \ri-ˈlaks\
Function: verb
Etymology: Middle English, from Latin relaxare, from re- + laxare to loosen, from laxus loose — more at slack
Date: 15th century
Main Entry: chill out
Function: intransitive verb
Date: 1980
slang : to calm down : go easy : relax —often used in the imperative
Pronunciation: \chi-ˈlaks\
Function: intransitive verb
Etymology: blend of chill and relax
Date: 1999
slang : to calm down : relax
Saturday, January 31, 2009 | | 1 Comments
Pajama Day!
Preface: I goofed and uploaded all the pictures on this post with a right justification (instead of centered) so the captions got all goofy. Most of them are UNDER the pictures instead of on top. boooo, but I'm not doing it again! :)
I got to say the coolest sentence to Logan this morning: "honey....go put on your PJs for school!" It was pajama day at preschool and Logan was SOOOO excited to go!! He dressed himself without fuss (major accomplishment), got his socks and shoes, grabbed his coat and loaded up his backpack with Checkers (his stuffed cat) and his "basement shoes" (slippers). The teacher said he was perfect today (phew!) and he said he had a great time!!
Oh...side note, I was talking to Logan about Checkers today and he said he would like to get his cat a collar for his birthday (the cat's birthday....which we decided was the same as Logan's). In the movie The Lady and the Tramp, a collar on a dog means that they are owned and loved. Logan said he wants everyone to know who owns Checkers. I'm concocting something about a collar with a tag made out of a shrinky dink (<-- see Karen, I'm determined to find a way to use those things!) haha. Second side note, Logan is sitting on the couch right now while his brothers are still napping watching YouTube videos of transformers (don't get me started on this daily request...more like daily demand!) He looked up and asked "mommy...what are you doing?" I said "writing about you and your pajama day on my blog". He said "oh....ok" like "well then....if it's about me, then I'm cool with it!" Here is Logan getting ready to go to school in his favorite "rocket ship" PJs!
Naked Baby Eating: While Logan was getting ready, Brady, the world's slowest eater, was still finishing his oatmeal bar. I refuse to dress this kid until after breakfast. He won't wear a bib and he's so messy!! He WAS wearing pants...just no shirt :)
It's hard to see, but he's got his food all over himself...on his arm, his face, his tummy. He did smell nice and cinnamon-y all day!
Per usual, after I used my camera, Logan took a couple shots himself. Here is another self portrait (at least he's doing this after I got his coat on and he's fully ready to go)
Here is a shot of brother Aiden...playing with a giant shovel and a pumpkin pail (people wonder why I can never give them specific ideas on birthday and Christmas gifts for this child!)
I think this is, by far, the coolest shot Logan has ever done! This is the inside of the pumpkin which conceals 4 small lollipops that were no doubt swiped from the pantry unbeknownst to mommy!!
Look Nana: the Handy Manny truck arrived yesterday! ALL the boys love it! In fact, poor Brady has to sneak away and play with it. He WAS actually using the screw driver inside the truck, but as soon as he saw me, he stopped and looked up.
Here are Logan and Aiden playing with the truck while I was making lunch. Aiden is wearing a different shirt now because he had an encounter with the water fountain after gym class (he got more of it on him than in him)
Thursday, January 29, 2009 | | 2 Comments
Snow Painting
I dragged the boys to the gym WAY early this morning (we were there by 8) against their will so I promised they could do something fun when we got home...paint the snow. Auntie Denna read about this in a parenting magazine and then I saw a similar article in my Wondertime Mag (best, most fun, creative and thoughtful parenting magazine out there in my opinion!!!) After a couple snafus including 3 water bottles that wouldn't squirt, I finally tracked down a couple good ones, loaded 'em up with colored water, bundled the older boys and sent them on their way. I thought this would be a great way to get a quick break...spend some time with Bray...maybe unload the dishwasher. At first, my plan didn't work at all. Logan and Aiden kept knocking on the glass door needing stuff every couple minutes. Brady just stood by the door crying and crying....trying to get out. Logan had to go potty! <-- which meant that I had to take off his coat, hat, boots, gloves, pull down his bibs and help him get it all back on after he was done. Finally though, everyone was happy.... The big boys ready to go paint the snow! Brady was SOOOO not happy that he couldn't go too. Poor little guy! Next year sweetie! I promise!
He found one of the broken bottles and attempted to reach the door handle....
Look at his little clenched fist. Like he's saying "curses! you tall door handle!"
Wednesday, January 28, 2009 | | 1 Comments
Someday We'll Laugh About It!
It's getting to the point where I can't remember what I've actually written about and what I've just thought about writing. If this is repeat info, just skip ahead!
We have a daily rewards system (based more on getting fun stuff at the end of the day and less on punishments...which don't seem to work that well for my kiddos). Each boy has a card on the fridge with 5 stars on it (attached with small pieces of velcro). If they do something against the house rules....which are also posted on the fridge, they lose a star. I have a little "star parking area" on the fridge too. You have to have 4 of 5 stars by the end of the day to get a reward. If you have 5, you get two rewards. Typical rewards are: a small piece of candy, color bath, 10 extra minutes of TV, pick a game that we play before bed etc. You can earn stars back by doing extra great things or by helping mommy above and beyond your daily chores. I try to call out really nice behavior by giving stars back at random times and I make sure to give them ample opportunities to earn enough stars for a reward.....until today.
Today was a learning experience and someone was forced to, not only lose most of his stars....for the 3rd day in a row, but was also SHOWN that his brother got rewards and he did not. My theory on this callous parental behavior? You don't know what you've got until it's gone. Aiden is hardly phased the past week when I threaten to take his stars away. He has also been on a renewed reign of terror due to some pretty bad napping last week (see post on how he escaped from his crib....which incidentally, has a new tent on it as of last Wednesday!)
So what was the bad thing he did today? He broke the downstairs potty. He had just peed in it (yeah Aiden...starting the potty training....sort of) when he decided to flush it and then play with the lid. Brian had wandered out after helping him finish up when he turned around and all I heard was "Aiden...NO!!!" Aiden was sliding the lid off of the top. Brian didn't make it back into the bathroom in time and the lid crashed to the ground. Somehow the wood floor, Aiden and the lid were fine....but it must have hit the tank because it started leaking and dripping immediately and had a big 'ol crack in it. The whole thing had to be replaced. Emergency run to Home Depot, a call to his dad and 4 hours later, we had a new potty. Oh Aiden.......
Daddy taking out the old potty
There it is in the mud room waiting to be hauled out to the curb.
The shiny new model. It's actually quite nice...for a toilet...I like the fancier square back on it.
Here are the star "holders". I used my cricut to cut out the shapes and the stars. Logan chose a "car" (it's a bus....the closest thing I had) and Aiden chose an ice cream cone. There really should be zero stars on Aiden's, but I gave up near the end of the day and didn't make a production of removing them...since he didn't care. He sure got upset when Logan had a little pack of gummy life savers after dinner. Message received?? Maybe....hopefully! :) Notice that there is a flower with little hearts on it. That's my daily "chart". I figure fair is fair! Sometimes mommies yell when they should be calm!
Couple more things just for you Nana (and Papa!)
The boys opened their Valentine's Day package from Nana and Papa early. Nana said it was OK and I really needed a distraction for them Saturday morning! Brady's present is on the way, but he had fun helping. I took a few videos because they were SO excited. First: some pictures
Look at these angels! They were running around like KA-RAZY when I said I would let them open their Valentine's box (which they begged and begged to open the previous day when it arrived). I said "go sit in the middle of the living room and fold your hands in your lap". If only I had a magic box EVERY day!! :)
Videos Nana!! Just for you!!! And...I'm going to add a super-fancy blue boarder this time. Oh technology is so much fun. ;)
Sunday, January 25, 2009 | | 2 Comments
The Cube Game Revisited
Before I get into the "main topic" of this post, I wanted to share my patriotic breakfast treat. Tuesday morning, on the day of the inauguration, I made the boys some red, white and blue waffles for breakfast. Delicious, nutritious....and best of all....pretty!!
Thursday night, we had some time to kill after dinner. Since we usually go to the gym and then rush home for dinner, we don't often have a good amount of play time before baths and bed. Logan now has a Mighty Mites class Thursday evenings so we were home and fed before 5:30 (thank you left-overs!) I pulled out "the dice game" which we haven't played in a quite a while. It was a blast!
The game consists of a big, fluffy dice that has a different color on each side plus a stack of color-coordinated cards. First you roll the dice and then pick a card that corresponds to the color on top. The cards have things like "clap your hands", "sing a song", "put on a hat", "blow bubbles", "ring the doorbell". I've seen my friend Kelly play this game at her house and she sat on the couch while a bunch of kids ran around doing all these different things. Well....our game was sort of a moving event. It started in the living room, moved down to the front door (when we played hide and seek and when we had to ring the doorbell) and then migrated to the dining room/kitchen because....what's the fun of "rolling" the dice when you can THROW or kick it?! I mean really!!
I have to say that I did my very best to help them "perform" each card. I actually blew some bubbles in the living room when we got the "blow bubbles" card...just a few....and then maybe a few more because Brady didn't seem to have his fair share ;)
Speaking of Bear, here is the little guy wandering around while his brothers did most of the game activities. We tried to include him when we could, but he had more interest in wandering off and finding other things to do....like ride his horse!
I wasn't actually taking any pictures of our game until we got this card and I cracked up at the things the boys chose to bring over. The card says "find something green"
Aiden brought over one of his geckos. I bought a pack of them at the grocery store last week because he came along to be my helper and I really needed him to stay in the cart. He loves them! We made them a little "home" (a plastic food storage container) and he carries them around with him.
Logan brought over his chair! The boys are wearing hats because we already had the "put on a hat card"
Here is the "hide and seek card". We did about 3 rounds. This is always a fun game because the boys can never stay quiet while they hide....you just follow the sound of the giggling (or wait a couple seconds because they never stay hidden for very long!)
Even Brady knew where they were hiding!! Here is a little video (look how fancy I am...I finally figured out how to do an embedded video!! so fancy!):
Here is one of the red cards....">
Friday, January 23, 2009 | | 1 Comments
It's Magic!!!
So happy together and not taking naps! Aiden said after this picture "mommy...I sorry I jump out my crib!" Sorry enough not to do it again? I don't think so!!
This is what the crib tent is supposed to look like. There are two poles that stretch and bend over the top to keep it up.

This is Aiden's crib tent. One pole is gone and the other one is inverted INTO the crib now. Too funny. I wonder if he'll EVER get a big boy bed! hahaha.
Tuesday, January 20, 2009 | | 3 Comments
Daddy's First Post
This morning, while mommy snuck upstairs to get less stinky (yes she is very stinky in the morning), Daddy and the boys began the process of making our first batch of homemade ice cream. After little to no deliberation, Chocolate was selected. Daddy chose chocolate as it is his favorite and his ice cream machine. The process was relatively easy: a little white/brown sugar, a little unsweetened chocolate, a little milk, vanilla, and finally a lot of half and half. We mixed it up in our stand mixer, another present from memaw, until we created what we called chocolate soup. It was yummy already!! The chocolate soup was placed in the outdoor fridge for safe keeping from the sugar monster otherwise known as Aiden.
While mommy went to the store today, daddy and the boys picked out toppings. The ice cream maker lets you select up to three "mix-ins" that can be added to the ice cream when it is dispensed. The boys selected candy coated mini-chocolate chips. Daddy chose a Reese mix in... peanut butter is good!
Aiden lovcs his mix-in !!!
Aiden and Logan get the first taste, the yummy ice cream made Aiden forget he was eating out of a bowl that wasn't blue.
Me like ice cream a lot !!!!!
Daddy gives it a go, he is obviously having a sugar rush !!
The first drawback of the process is discovered. Self service !!!!!
The world is our foot stool, or at least the play-do bin.
Big brother gives it a try, overall a big success !!!!!
Yeah Daddy! Good post!! Now it's back to mom! I have one more thing to write about before we're done...we'll call this part "Brady makes three".
Brian has had some pretty bad luck when it comes to our kids and...potty accidents. For example, the very very first time he thought it would be fun to take a bath with Logan, our sweet little man (then only about 5 months) pooed in the bathtub! I think poor Brian was traumatized by the whole thing (and this was NOT the last time he was in a poo-tub...as it were). I can't remember Aiden's big incident, but it was something bad...worse than the bathtub. I think it went something like this: Aiden and Brian are cuddling in bed, Brian smells something funny and feels something warm...everyone is rushed to the shower. I made a card from Aiden to daddy that day (see below). This card was delivered after I let poor Brian go back to bed that morning (being pooed on is, again, quite traumatic I guess.....although I've had my FAIR share of....encounters). Anyway, last night, Brian was taking a shower and I asked him to rinse Brady off before bed and handed him in. I was picking things up in our bedroom when I heard "CODE 23!!!" (did I write a post about this before? I don't think so....household code words to be discussed in the future). Anyway - I ran in as is deemed by a code 23 and Brian said "you have to take him!" Poor Brian had put Brady on the floor of the shower because....his whole arm was covered (in you know what). Brian asked me to get a diaper (of all things) so I did and he scraped the PILE of poop off of his arm. I remembered the card I made from Aiden because I had run across it only a couple of weeks ago. I went downstairs, modified and re-purposed the sentiment, put Bray to bed and gave the card to Brian. He laughed of course. Humor really is the best medicine (plus, in this case, a good amount of soap!)
Sunday, January 18, 2009 | | 4 Comments
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- The Cube Game Revisited
- It's Magic!!!
- Daddy's First Post
- The Way Boys Play & "Welcome to the Frozen Tundra"
- The Winter Wonderland Returns
- An Actual Night Out with the Adults!
- Look What Aiden Discovered Today
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About Me
- Renay
- Stories about BRLAB: Brian & Renay, two relatively sane parents, and our three adorable, but active boys: Logan - 9, Aiden - 7 and Brady - 6. I started this blog to document our adventures and milestones for those family members who are far away and can't always share the fun in person. This blog has become my way to keep track of everything in the lives of my growing boys - from the super big stuff that seems the most important to the small things that probably really ARE the most important. I always include tons of pictures because I plan to make a book out of the blog on a yearly basis. Time flies by so fast, I can only hope that these posts will help us remember all the wonderful and silly times we have together as a family.

